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Essays and commentary on society, leadership, culture, relationships, womanhood and human dignity, drawing on Zimbabwean and African realities and the wider world.

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This Is 40, Season 4: The Adventure I Choose

A new continent, slow mornings, and peace that stays. Forty, free, full, and finally walking in purpose.

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This Is 40, Season 3: The Turning Point, Where I Learned to Break Beautifully

Love, a move across countries, a real relationship with God, and the season that didn’t just change me. It revealed me.

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This Is 40, Season 2: The YOLO Era (And I Mean That Wholeheartedly)

Two degrees, a first car, a marriage, a baby, a divorce, and a life lived like a book someone would one day read.

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This Is 40, Season 1: The Little Girl Who Had Everything That Mattered

Barefoot football in Marondera, bread and Lacto from the tuck shop, and the two women who made a poor childhood rich.

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Faith4 min read

When God Says No: Looking for the Hidden Yes

A gentle word for anyone still sitting with an unanswered prayer, from the Rooted & Blooming community.

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Relationships5 min read

Before Anyone Is a Spouse, There Is a Human Being

On building a life together, the sacrifices nobody frames and hangs on the wall, and the first duty of love.

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Womanhood3 min read

Dear Bloomer: Growth Is Not Betrayal

On outgrowing the woman who kept you safe, and thanking her on your way out.

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Society5 min read

Our Grandmothers Taught Us to Survive. Now We Must Learn to Build.

The women who carried our families on their backs often reach old age with nothing to lean on. What would it take to change that?

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Womanhood2 min read

Dear Reader: Keep Building Yourself Too

Why every woman deserves some form of financial independence, even when she has chosen someone wonderful to stand beside her.

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Society6 min read

My Grandmother Was a Cross-Border Trader. Today, I Wonder Where She Would Earn Her Living.

When I read about vendors being moved on and migrants being targeted, I don’t just see headlines. I see the woman who raised me.

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Politics6 min read

My Heart Smiled in Chinhoyi. My Eyes Remain Wide Open.

On General Chiwenga’s address, uncomfortable truths from inside the corridors of power, and why credit is not the same as trust.

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Politics5 min read

Zimbabweans, We Are on Our Own. But Is That Necessarily a Bad Thing?

Have we become so good at surviving that we’ve forgotten how to demand better?

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Personal growth5 min read

Rooted Before Blooming: Why Growth Starts Underground

We want to bloom quickly. God often starts somewhere less visible.

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Womanhood6 min read

The Quiet Strength of Women Who Hold Everything Together

Some of the strongest women I know are also the most tired. It is time we talked honestly about the cost of always coping.

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Culture7 min read

What Home Means When You Live Between Two Countries

On belonging, distance and the strange grief of feeling like a visitor in both places you call home.

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